Live: polling rework, source locks, preflight scaffolding, Vue previews

Carved out of #371, minus progressive publication. Everything here works
against real project source the way main's Live already does: the agent
writes variants into the file the browser loaded, HMR fires, Accept
promotes and carbonizes. Nothing is staged anywhere.

Poll lanes. Events now carry an explicit priority: accept/discard/exit
ahead of manual_edit_apply/steer/carbonize_cleanup ahead of generate. A
long generate can no longer sit in front of the Accept the user just
clicked. leaseEvent claims its lease before awaiting, so a slow prepare
cannot hand the same event to two pollers.

Source locks. A per-file mutex around every accept and discard path, keyed
on a digest of the absolute path. Staleness is decided by owner-pid
liveness rather than mtime, so a wedged lock clears when its owner dies
instead of after an arbitrary timeout, and a slow-but-live accept is never
stolen from. Only the owning process can release a lock.

Preflight scaffolding. The server runs live-wrap (or live-insert) before
the poll returns and hands the result back as event.scaffold. That walk is
measured at ~7.6s on a large repo; moving it off the agent's critical path
removes a deterministic tool round trip without touching the generated
design. Falls back cleanly to the agent running the helper itself.

Vue previews. previewMode: "vue-component" for Nuxt/Vue targets, matching
the existing Svelte component path: variants compile as real SFCs from a
dev-only directory so the route is never rewritten during generation, and
Vite mounts them without invalidating page state. Accept is the only route
write. Includes a Vue attr tokenizer that normalizes shorthand bindings
(@x, :x, #x) to their canonical forms.

Accept hardening. Every thrown failure now returns mode: 'error' rather
than an ambiguous unhandled result, so a real failure is never classified
as a deliberate manual handoff and silently dropped. The marker search
skips node_modules/.git/dist/build/.impeccable.

Shared CLI arg parsing extracted to scripts/lib/cli-args.mjs.

Assisted-by: Claude Code

scripts/lib/utils.js

@@ -645,11 +645,6 @@ export const PROVIDER_BLOCK_TAGS = new Set([
   'rovo-dev',
   'trae',
   'trae-cn',
-  // Capability tags. Not harness names: they mark instructions that belong to a
-  // shared capability several harnesses opt into. Listing the harnesses instead
-  // would mean duplicating the block body per provider tag, since a block takes
-  // one tag. Opt a provider in by adding the tag to its providerTags.
-  'live-progressive',
 ]);
 
 /**